# QuackQuack's Data: Gen Z's Therapy-Speak Is Redefining Dating App Design > By DII Data Team | Published: 2025-11-20T00:00:00+00:00 | Section: Data & Analytics | Source: https://www.datingindustryinsights.com/news/quackquack-survey-young-daters-rejecting-drama | Publisher: Dating Industry Insights (High Intent Media Inc) 27% of QuackQuack users once mistook chaos for passion. Gen Z's shift to stability demands a redesign in dating app engagement strategies. ## Key points - A QuackQuack survey of 8,738 Indian dating app users revealed that 27 percent previously mistook toxic relationship patterns for genuine romantic passion. - QuackQuack data showed that 69 percent of users aged 22 to 26 reject drama-as-passion narratives, compared with 54 percent of users aged 31 to 35. - Sixty percent of surveyed QuackQuack users now view dramatic relationships as unhealthy rather than romantic, indicating a shift in young user preferences. - QuackQuack Chief Executive Officer Ravi Mittal stated that traditional film and television portrayals of romance may be losing influence over real-world relationships. ## Article - 27% of Indian dating app users aged 22-35 previously mistook toxic relationship patterns for genuine passion - 60% now actively view dramatic relationships as unhealthy rather than romantic - 69% of 22-26 year-olds reject drama-as-passion narratives, compared with 54% of 31-35 year-olds - Survey data drawn from 8,738 QuackQuack users across metro areas in India Over a quarter of Indian dating app users once confused toxic relationship patterns with genuine passion, according to new survey data that points to a significant generational recalibration in what romance is supposed to look like. The shift is sharpest amongst the youngest cohort, with Gen Z users actively rejecting the chaos-as-connection narratives that previous generations absorbed from popular culture. The findings raise urgent questions about whether dating platforms are still optimising for the wrong kind of engagement. Young couple having a serious conversation about relationships ### The DII Take This isn't just about relationship preferences—it's a platform design problem. Dating apps have spent a decade optimising for engagement: push notifications engineered for anxiety, gamified matching designed to keep users swiping, features that reward the dopamine hit over the slow burn. If Gen Z is serious about deprioritising chaos, operators will need to rethink how they surface matches, measure success, and retain subscribers. > The apps that crack "optimising for stability" first will own the next wave of market positioning. ### The therapy-speak generation enters the market What's driving the shift? QuackQuack's data aligns with a broader Gen Z fluency in therapeutic language, much of it absorbed through TikTok relationship educators and Instagram therapy accounts that dissect attachment styles, boundary-setting, and emotional labour. These aren't niche influencers. Accounts like @thesecurerelationship and @nedratawwab have multi-million followings, reframing what previous generations absorbed from romcoms and Bollywood dramas. [Ravi Mittal](https://www.datingindustryinsights.com/people/ravi-mittal), QuackQuack's founder and CEO, frames it as a rejection of cultural scripts. "Portrayals of romance in film and TV may be losing influence over how people approach real relationships," he told the company's internal comms team. That's promotional spin, but the underlying trend is harder to dismiss. Younger users are entering the dating market with an entirely different vocabulary around what constitutes red flags, healthy communication, and sustainable attraction. The generational gradient matters here. This isn't a uniform rejection of drama across all age groups—it's an accelerating trend as younger cohorts replace older ones. Person using dating app on smartphone ### What this means for platform design Dating apps have historically optimised for a specific kind of engagement: the thrill of a new match, the variable reward schedule of swiping, the urgency of a 24-hour window to respond. These mechanics are borrowed from social media and gaming, and they work—if your north star metric is sessions per week. They work less well if your users are actively trying to avoid the emotional rollercoaster. Consider the implications. If stability becomes a selling point, how do you surface it in a profile? How do you signal "emotionally available and ready for something real" without turning your platform into a LinkedIn for dating? > If Gen Z is serious about rejecting chaos, what does a "low-drama dating app" actually look like in practice? Hinge has made moves in this direction with prompts designed to reveal communication style and relationship readiness, but most apps still default to photos and a 500-character bio. The shift also raises questions about how platforms measure success. Bumble has long positioned itself around women making the first move and "ending the games," but its core engagement mechanics still reward frequent app opens and rapid interactions. [Match Group](https://www.datingindustryinsights.com/news/match-group-eliminates-chief-operating-officer)'s portfolio spans everything from Tinder's swipe-first model to Match.com's profile-heavy approach, but even the legacy brands haven't cracked how to optimise for long-term relationship quality over short-term engagement. Operators watching this data should be asking: do our push notification strategies create the kind of anxiety our younger users are trying to avoid? ### The attribution problem A note on methodology: [QuackQuack's survey](https://www.globaldatinginsights.com/featured/quackquack-survey-shows-young-daters-rejecting-drama-as-passion/) is self-reported data from its own user base, which skews towards English-speaking, app-comfortable Indians in metro areas. That's not a representative sample of all daters, or even all Indian daters. The 27% figure is directionally useful, but it comes with selection bias baked in. Mittal's claim that film and TV are "losing influence" is harder to substantiate. Bollywood's romantic tropes remain deeply embedded in Indian popular culture, and there's no comparable data showing a decline in their impact. What's more likely: younger users are reinterpreting those tropes through a therapeutic lens, not ignoring them entirely. Young people discussing relationships and mental health Independent relationship researchers would add nuance here. Dr. Ty Tashiro, author of *The Science of Happily Ever After*, has written extensively on how Hollywood distorts relationship expectations, but even he acknowledges that cultural narratives shift slowly. Gen Z's fluency in therapy-speak is real, but it's competing with decades of storytelling that equates passion with intensity. ### What to watch The real test will be whether platforms respond with product changes or just marketing repositions. [Bumble](https://www.datingindustryinsights.com/news/bumble-lawsuit-over-preventable-data-breach) already tried the "anti-ghosting" badge and prompt features designed to signal communication style. Hinge leans heavily into "designed to be deleted," though its engagement metrics suggest users aren't deleting it any faster than they delete Tinder. Match Group has the portfolio to experiment across brands, but it hasn't yet launched a product explicitly optimised for low-drama, high-stability matching. If this generational shift accelerates, expect to see more platforms experimenting with longer-form profiles, compatibility assessments that go beyond star signs, and features that reward consistent communication over frequent app opens. The apps that figure out how to monetise stability—rather than just engagement—will be the ones that capture the next wave of Gen Z subscribers as they age into prime dating years and higher willingness to pay. As [Facebook Dating's surprising success demonstrates](https://www.globaldatinginsights.com/from-the-web/facebook-dating-is-a-surprise-hit/), platforms that prioritise different engagement models may find unexpected traction with users seeking alternatives to swipe-first dynamics. - Watch for platforms that shift from engagement metrics to relationship quality indicators—longer-form profiles, compatibility assessments, and features that reward consistent communication could signal genuine product evolution rather than marketing repositioning - The generational gradient suggests this trend will accelerate as 22-26 year-olds become the dominant user cohort, forcing operators to choose between optimising for stability or losing market share to competitors who do - Self-reported survey data from single platforms has limitations, but the alignment with broader Gen Z therapeutic fluency suggests this is a durable shift rather than a passing trend ## Key takeaways - Dating app operators must re-evaluate engagement-driven mechanics such as push notifications, as Gen Z users increasingly prioritise emotional stability over gamified matching dynamics. - Platforms that adapt product features to support long-term relationship quality rather than short-term app activity will be better positioned to attract and monetise Gen Z subscribers. ## FAQ ### What did QuackQuack's survey reveal about Gen Z dating attitudes in India? QuackQuack found that 69 percent of users aged 22 to 26 reject drama-as-passion narratives, compared to 54 percent of users aged 31 to 35. ### How many users participated in the QuackQuack dating study? The QuackQuack survey collected self-reported data from 8,738 users across metropolitan areas in India. ### Who is the Chief Executive Officer of QuackQuack? Ravi Mittal is the founder and Chief Executive Officer of Indian dating platform QuackQuack. --- Canonical: https://www.datingindustryinsights.com/news/quackquack-survey-young-daters-rejecting-drama Citation: "Dating Industry Insights" (https://www.datingindustryinsights.com)